What are you really looking for?  

CurveyAries 46F  
12 posts
1/10/2019 2:52 pm
What are you really looking for?

I want to know what you guys out there are really looking for. I, as a woman, am looking for a man who will do things with me outside the scope of sex, as a FRIEND with benefits~not a boyfriend. I am finding it hard to find men here who are really into that even though they start out willing to be my NSA FWB until I tell them I am not going to hide myself and I want to go out in public with them on occasion.

So tell me guys, which is it?

1: The Fuck buddy-the person you want when you want something other than your Wife-Husband/Fiance/Girlfriend-Boyfriend to release your pent up energy with. You hide the fact you are doing this from your SO and require the situation to be discreet. This is the person you are going drive further away to see or to take out so you don't run into anybody you know or your SO might know.

2: The Friend with Benefits-the person you are up to maybe going to a movie, dinner and a drink, dancing, a museum, or whatever with. You have fun, you can take them anywhere because WHO CARES who sees you together, you're just two friends out having a good time and maybe afterwards or even beforehand you have some awesome sexual experiences together. Then you each go home happy.
The Fuck Buddy
The Friends with Benefits

Spiked_Log_Trap 43M
202 posts
1/11/2019 7:09 am

if you have a saturday off, I wouldn't waste it on here. Go do something else just for you.

CurveyAries replies on 1/11/2019 7:59 am:
I am planning on it hon, lol. I would enjoy having a fwb to go out with for part of it maybe.

justskin1 67M  
10893 posts
1/11/2019 3:09 pm

I would love to find a FWB to do things with and sometimes have sex with. I like that bit about not a girl or boy friend.
Definitely not someone where sneaking around is requested or needed.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.

CurveyAries 46F  
12 posts
1/11/2019 9:02 pm

Well as I watch the progression of my poll I appreciate your honesty everyone. It does bring me down just a little that I might not find my nsa fwb though....Not that I haven't met some interesting guys, lol, just not quite what was going for.

3440 posts
1/11/2019 9:11 pm



CurveyAries replies on 1/12/2019 12:46 pm:
Thanks Jack

PCBDean57 61M  
13 posts
1/12/2019 12:16 pm

Being friends first is what I personally looking for. Fun outside the bedroom with each other can enhance what goes on inside the bedroom.

CurveyAries replies on 1/12/2019 12:46 pm:
I agree but am finding very few men hear who do. I am not looking to hook some one into anything other than a good time when we get together. I am hoping someone will see the value in it eventually too.

Me59x 62M
22 posts
1/12/2019 7:35 pm

Someone who likes sex as much as I do

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